Shibari/Kinbaku - Japanese Erotic Rope Bondage Sessions in Bangkok

Experience the beauty of Shibari/Kinbaku, the art of Japanese erotic rope bondage, fostering a profound connection between artistry and intimacy.

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Enhanced Intimacy
Shibari/Kinbaku fosters a deep sense of intimacy and trust. Tying and being tied creates a unique bond, encouraging open communication, vulnerability, and emotional connection.
Mindfulness and Relaxation
The person experiences a meditative state, focusing on the present moment and sensations, leading to calm and peace.
Artistic Expression
It is a form of artistic expression. It allows individuals to explore their sensations, turning the body into a canvas for aesthetic exploration and personal expression.

What is Shibari/Kinbaku - Japanese Bondage?

Shibari, also known as Kinbaku, refers to the Japanese art of erotic rope bondage.

It involves intricate tying and binding techniques using ropes to create visually stunning patterns and designs on the body. Beyond its aesthetic appeal, Shibari/Kinbaku is often practised within the context of BDSM and emphasises trust, communication, and intimacy between partners. This art form has deep cultural roots in Japan and has gained popularity worldwide for its blend of artistic expression and sensual exploration.

Shibari/Kinbaku Artist in Bangkok

I am Alex, a Western male Shibari/Kinbaku Artist and Intimacy Trainer.

I provide Shibari/Kinbaku sesions in Bangkok.

For half my life, I've soaked up the sacral experience and practical knowledge about sensuality and physiology. My knowledge comes from the scientific method and my valuable experiance.

Now, I practice Shibari/Kinbaku and sex teaching in Bangkok, helping hundreds of people find self-discovery, confidence and pleasure.

I am passionate about creating a safe, non-judgmental, and nurturing space.

Why do people choose to try Shibari?

Each person's motivation for exploring Shibari can be a unique combination of factors specific to their interests and desires.
Shibari/Kinbaku - Japanese Bondage
Shibari/Kinbaku - Japanese Bondage
  • Novelty Sensory Stimulation
    • The process of being tied or doing the tying in Shibari can heighten sensory experiences. It can involve a range of sensations, such as the pressure of the ropes against the skin, which some find intensely pleasurable or stimulating.
  • Therapeutic Benefits
    • For some, engaging in Shibari can have therapeutic effects. The focus on mindfulness, the meditative nature of the tying process, and the release of stress or tension may contribute to a sense of relaxation and well-being.
  • Exploration of BDSM Dynamics
    • Shibari offers a safe and consensual way to explore power dynamics, dominance, submission, and control. It allows individuals to delve into these aspects within a controlled and respectful environment.

Philosophy of Shibari/Kinbaku

Shibari/Kinbaku, a captivating art form, is more than just ropes and knots—it's a philosophy that weaves trust, intimate connections, and artistic beauty together. It's an exhilarating exploration, inviting vulnerability, mutual respect, and a thrilling journey into sensuality and aesthetics through the art of binding.

Benefits of Shibari/Kinbaku

Japanese Bondage offers a range of physical, emotional, and psychological benefits, including:
  • Stress Reduction
    The process of tying and being tied can induce a sense of relaxation, providing a therapeutic release from stress and tension.
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  • Mindfulness Practice
    It fosters mindfulness, encouraging participants to be present in the moment and focus on sensations and emotions.
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  • Self-Discovery
    Engaging in Shibari can lead to self-exploration, allowing individuals to better understand their desires and preferences.
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  • Heightened Sensory Experience
    Shibari stimulates the senses, amplifying awareness of touch, pressure, and the body's responses.
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  • Communication Skills
    Engaging in Shibari requires clear communication, encouraging partners to express their desires and boundaries openly.
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  • Artistic Expression
    Practitioners enjoy the creative aspect, exploring artistic expression by designing intricate patterns and shapes with ropes.
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What's the feeling of kinbaku/shibari like?

Well, it varies a lot from person to person! It depends on the tie used and how your body and mind react. Most folks feel a mix of vulnerability and strength when tied up, kind of like being in a state of surrender. Trust and letting play a significant role here.
Kinbaku can bring both sweet and intense feelings at the same time—like arousal and torment, comfort and intensity. Some sessions can feel more challenging, while others focus on gentle, sensual sensations without pain.
For some, the tormenting style (semenawa) is where they find their groove, exploring the complexity of pain and pleasure. Others prefer a softer, more sensual experience, steering clear of pain.
Suspension adds a physical edge, where you might feel your breath restricted or pressure from the ropes. It's a unique sensation—more like intense pressure, similar to a deep massage coupled with being gently locked into positions.
Overall, kinbaku ropes are firm, but oddly, once you settle into the tie, it feels like your body melts into them pretty blissfully.

What does a Shibari/Kinbaku session look like?

Depending on your preferences and body sensitivity, the session can last 1 to 4 hours.
  • Step 1: Discussion
    Before the session begins, you'll discuss setting intentions and boundaries and clarify any questions or concerns. This ensures that both parties are comfortable and consenting to the activities.
  • Step 2: Preparation
    The person performing the tying (the rigger) prepares the ropes, often using specific types and lengths based on their design plans. They also consider the comfort and safety of the person being tied (the model).
  • Step 3: Tying Process
    The rigger proceeds to skillfully and intricately tie the model using the ropes, creating patterns and designs while being mindful of the model's comfort and circulation. Throughout this process, the partners often communicate to ensure safety and comfort.
  • Step 4: Exploration and Connection
    As the tying progresses, both parties may experience a heightened sense of connection, intimacy, and vulnerability. The model might explore sensations while the rigger delves into the artistic and sensory aspects of the tie.
  • Step 5: Aftercare
    Once the tying is complete, there's a period of aftercare. This involves removing the ropes carefully and ensuring the model is comfortable. It might also involve reassurance, cuddling, or debriefing to address any emotional or physical needs that arose during the session.
  • Step 6: Reflection and Debrief
    Partners may discuss their experience, reflecting on emotions, sensations, and the overall session, reinforcing communication and connection.

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  • No pressure.

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Frequently Asked Questions about Shibari/Kinbaku

Get answers to common questions on its benefits, techniques, what to expect, and necessary precautions.
Shibari/Kinbaku (wiki) is a form of Japanese rope bondage that involves intricate tying and binding techniques using ropes to create visually stunning patterns and designs on the body.

Shibari (縛り) is a Japanese word meaning “to bind”. More specifically, the kanji 縛 conveys the concept of “to bind”. The kana り is used to conjugate the verb but does not change the substance of the meaning.

The word “kinbaku” (緊縛) indicates only Japanese-style erotic bondage; the verb shibari is also used in everyday situations (tying shoelaces, for example). It is a word of Chinese origin and, therefore, has a more formal sound than the similar Japanese word “shibari“. Both terms are used in Japan to refer to bondage done with ropes.