Wendy vs Cinderella — Free Quiz & Report

I often mould myself to please others, hoping they will look after me in return.

Building independence and self-reliance feels exciting and achievable for me.

I avoid conflicts or leadership because I fear getting it wrong without guidance.

I fantasise about being chosen or rescued so I can finally feel safe and supported.

I’m confident taking full responsibility for my choices and outcomes.

I delay big decisions because I’m waiting for a clear sign, help, or the ‘right person’.

Deep down, I wish someone would come and take over the hard parts of life for me.

Letting others handle their own problems feels comfortable and natural to me.

When I relax or put myself first, I feel guilty or selfish.

I choose partners or friends who need guidance, care, or structure from me.

If I don’t step in, things usually work out fine; people don’t need me to manage them.

I find it hard to say no to requests for help, even when it hurts my own plans.

Helping, fixing, and organising others gives me a sense of purpose I struggle to find for myself.

I often feel responsible for keeping everyone else emotionally okay, even when I’m exhausted.